Hi family and friends!
My first post is a little belated because my host family did not have internet for the first six weeks, but it's finally up and running, so hopefully I will be able to maintain this blog more consistently.
I have so many things to share, and the past seven weeks have really flown by! So, although I hate to summarize the past seven weeks all at once, here is an outline, in a somewhat organized fashion:
The program: National Security Language Initiative for Youth (NSLI-Y)...however, it is being facilitated by the American Field Service (AFS) in Egypt.
My home: I am living in CAIRO (not Beni Suef, as I was originally told), due to a last minute change. We were notified of this change only two days before my departure, so it was very stressful, but so far, I am very happy that I am in Cairo because it is such a fascinating city. My host family has a nice apartment in Heliopolis, which is a section of Cairo.
My host family: The transition to my host family has not been perfect, but I am getting the hang of things and beginning to understand and adapt to their way of life, so things have greatly improved.
Mira - 10-year old host sister
Ahmed - 9-year old brother
Mohamed - 18-year old brother
Somaya - my host mother
Maisa - a live-in maid who is around my age
I have yet to see the host dad at the house, although I did see him for about 15 minutes outside of the house.
The beginning:
Ramadan, the month of fasting for Muslims, was going on the first 2 1/2 weeks I was in Egypt, so everything was different from what it will be like for the rest of the year. Muslims cannot eat or drink during the day (from about 4am to 6pm), so EVERYTHING slows down. My host siblings basically slept from 5 or 6am until around 4pm, and then everyone in the family (and maybe some relatives or friends) would sit down for a huge feast around 6pm. We would watch TV during dinner and for many hours afterwards.
Sometimes we drove to visit relatives or went out after dinner and didn't get back until 3am! I don't mind staying up late (as my family back home knows), but I was (and still am) shocked at how nocturnal Egyptians become during Ramadan. Many Egyptians like to spend time at cafes and sporting clubs, so I was able to go a few times. We visited some relatives who lived in farming villages outside of Cairo, which was fascinating...narrow dirt roads surrounded on either side by cement apartments, donkey carts filled with stalks of corn or other goods, men riding donkeys sideways, women carrying huge loads in baskets on their heads, shops with Coca-Cola signs right across the street from makeshift stables.
The kids didn't have school during Ramadan, and I hadn't started work or language lessons, so I had to find ways to keep myself from being bored out of my mind!...it mostly consisted of studying Arabic on my own, reading, doing Sudoku puzzles, and doing chores around the house.
Now:
My daily life now is much, much different. I have language classes three days a week (Sunday, Tuesday, Thursday) from 8-11 am. I walk to school with one of my friends on the same program, which usually takes 45 minutes. Now that the weather is cooling down, I really enjoy this bit of exercise, despite the dirty streets and pollution! My feet are always black by the end of the day, and sometimes when I'm walking I can't inhale all the way because of the exhaust, but I'm just glad to be walking! I am in a class with two other girls who are also on the NSLI-Y program, so I enjoy seeing them because I haven't had much of a chance to meet other people my age.
I am also volunteering for six hours a day, five days a week at this center for mentally-disabled people. The 'students' are both children and adults, and there are a wide range of disablities as well, from autism to Down Syndrome (and many more of which I do not know the names). Since I have had no previous experience with disabled people, I have had a difficult time learning how to handle them, but I am already beginning to feel more comfortable. The other adults working there have been very welcoming, so I am very grateful to them, and I hope to become more involved once I understand how things work.
The most different parts about my life now:
So far, I have had to be very self-reliant, especially when it comes to transportation. The traffic in Cairo is truly amazing, and the driving is even crazier...there are basically NO lines on the roads and no stoplights, so as my host mom says, everyone drives "by luck." Many people in Cairo take these microbuses, which r
esemble large vans, and they pick up/drop off people along various routes. The trick is to get on the right bus and then to get off in the right place. Although the first few times were scary, I am pretty comfortable with using them now, and I have found most Egyptians to be very helpful if I need any directions. Each ride costs no more than 1.50 L.E. (about 25 cents), which is wonderful...and the NSLI-Y program is paying us back anyway. I have also navigated the wonderful metro system by myself and taken taxis (which is my least favorite mode of transportation). (The picture is of a typical microbus.)
I love being able to go ANYWHERE without driving, and although I got lost by myself in the middle of Cairo for two hours one time, I have never felt like I've been in any danger.
After every language class, the other two girls and I stop by one of the many fruit stands that occupy nearly every corner of Cairo. The array of fresh fruit is amazing...right now there are three kinds of fresh dates, pomegranates, persimmons, figs, bananas, apples, grapes, pears, guava, watermelon, and a few others that I don't know. We bought of kilo of fresh figs today (~18) for 6 L.E., which is about $1, and split them between us. We also eat a lot of delicious bread that is somewhat like pita bread but 100x better. During Ramadan, there were at least two types of meat every night, as well as pasta and other side dishes, but now the meals are not as extravagant, but still delicious.
The Arabic:
My host siblings usually talk to me in English - they all go to schools that are taught completely in English, so their English is pretty good, especially my older host brother's. Since the beginning, however, I have tried to respond in Arabic as much as I can, which has really helped. I have seen improvement in my comprehension and oral skills, but I still have a long, long way to go as far as carrying on a somewhat fluid conversation. The language classes are taught in Modern Standard Arabic (MSA), which is what the Quran is written in, but Egyptians speak Egyptian Colloquial Arabic (ECA). ECA has very different vocabulary and grammar, so the language classes have not really helped with my everyday usage of Arabic. However, I am hoping my oral skills will improve once I begin to understand more.
I have yet to see the pyramids, or do much other traveling (which was not part of the program description anyway), but I am planning on organizing weekend outings around Cairo with some of the other NSLI-Y students in my area. We did go to an outdoor book market where I bargained for some giant Arabic-English dictionaries, but there are so many things I want to see!
There are many ups and downs throughout the week, and I miss many things back at home, especially Lily and Abby, but overall, I am enjoying my time in Cairo. Things started off slowly at first, but have really picked up, so I hope to write back soon with more detailed stories.
If you got through this long post, I want to tell you that I miss you all and appreciate your interest!! Please feel free to leave any comments and keep me updated on whatever you are doing.